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History and discussion of my life in a fandom-based cult of personality lead by Andy Blake (andythanfiction). It's a crazy train with no caboose, and you just can't stop looking.

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I hosted an AMA on my livejournal last month, and finally completed all the questions.  You can read it here.

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Done at last. Sorry it took so long - it made me too angry and exhausted to dwell in that mindspace.


Most people are ignoring Agentsex because they recognize that the only reason she’s doing any of this is that she craves attention. She especially craves attention from Andy, but she’ll take whatever she can get. It doesn’t even seem to matter whether the response is positive or negative, as long…

Also, the personal medical records document? He never sent that to me. Never saw it. Far as I know it doesn’t exist. I know about his therapy because I was there in the office with him and his shrink. And later, I knew what he *told* me.

That’s the closest I’ll get to discussing ANYTHING with that offensive sack of doorknobs who put forth this “challenge”

Pumpkin spice latte season is here! Fucking yeah!


I am as disheartened as anyone else is by the news that wings-andgrace has moved in with Andy. I think, though, that we need to be very careful about how—and how much—we talk about that situation and about her.

Remember, Andy likes to encourage an “us versus them” mentality in his circle, and the…

Well said

Asker Anonymous Asks:
Hi! I was wondering if you were considering finishing up the AMA from last month? I definitely understand if it's just not worth your time and energy, i was just finding it all really fascinating. Hope you are well.
kumquatwriter kumquatwriter Said:

I do, I’ve intended to most evenings. But I just haven’t been able to make myself do it. I’m learning a ton at my job - this is a career I intend to pursue, and what I do gets complex. By the time I get home and play with my son and put him to bed and catch up with my husband and make or have dinner and there’s new Trailer Park Boys episodes and…

…and I just don’t give half a fuck about Andy, or the stupid shit I did when I was with him.

I’ll finish it soon. Life is good. I’ll find time.

Asker Anonymous Asks:
So wings-andgrace has moved in with Andy. On the bright side, I guess those college kids will be safe. The boa has a bellyfull now. I should have seen this coming when she cut off the heretic Winjennster for speaking out against Andy.
kumquatwriter kumquatwriter Said:


Edit: according to Winjennster herself, she and Wings-andgrace are still very much talking to each other. I’m still leaving that part of this post in, because even though the situation is entirely fictional, I consider the points I make about Triangulation to be very important still.

So wings-andgrace has moved in with Andy.

I wish I could say I’m surprised, but I’m really, really not. Andy moving in with his victims, or having them move in with him, is something he’s been doing for as far back as BoE. He moved in with Abbey, and then had several other people move in with them. Andy doesn’t change; what he’s repeatedly done in the past, you can bet he’s trying to do in the present, and he will do again in the future. It’s really that simple.

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Note the corrections, they’re important. But delwynmarch has nailed it in this analysis -at least, the part about using wings-andgrace as bait and shield. Been there, done that, still have the t shirt.

From our first Apple harvest.

Guide To The Emmys With Joan and Melissa 2005:

Asker Anonymous Asks:
I thought you didn't like thanfiction???
kumquatwriter kumquatwriter Said:


I really don’t know what your point is. Perhaps if you phrased it in the form of a question.